I’m not a good writer..But I challenge myself. Maybe I can share precious words and experience with you guys..humm..Hope you won’t boring reading this huh..owh..Topic for today is about "human behaviour" it's about you, it's about me..it's about all of us..
Let me give you the definition first..
Definition of human behaviour
The capacity of mental, physical, emotional, and social activities experienced during the five stages of a human being's life - prenatal, infancy, childhood, adolescence, and adulthood. Includes the behaviors as dictated by culture, society, values, morals, ethics, and genetics.
About myself..hurmm..maybe this word can tell everything..it’s about inferiority complex..by the way, i luv this quotes so much, motivate myself to be better person..
And also
“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.” ― Helen Keller
But this one I love the most..
“... People with great passions, people who accomplish great deeds, people who possess strong feelings, even people with great minds and a strong personality, rarely come out of good little boys and girls.” ― Lev S. Vygotsky
Wise man say, do not compare your life to others because you don’t know what their journey is all about. Easier said than done actually. I keep comparing myself with others since I was small. I always compare myself with my relatives, my siblings and others. That’s make me feel like I’m nobody. Since I way a toddler, I’ve been told about betrayal, back stabbers, bullied and many negative words rather than positive one. Afraid of doing small thing and big thing as well and afraid of being scolded by my parents and older siblings. This feeling haunted me since I was small until now. One of the reason why is I am one of the youngest granddaughters among other grandchildren. My voice is nothing. Nobody want to listen and nobody care. Maybe they listen but a few of them. I really need somebody who can always by my side, love me as who I am..and the truly word for a true friend should be like Mr Henri JM Nouwen quotes.
“When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.” ― Henri J.M. Nouwen, The Road to Daybreak: A Spiritual Journey
Maybe the reason why this thing happened is expecting person to be like what you want it to be. Nobody perfect for the first place.
“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.” ― Donald Miller, A Million Miles in a Thousand Years: What I Learned While Editing My Life
“Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.”
“This life is what you make it. No matter what, you're going to mess up sometimes, it's a universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you're going to mess it up. Girls will be your friends - they'll act like it anyway. But just remember, someone will come, someone will go. The ones that stay with you through everything - they're your true best friends. Don't let go of them. Also remember, sisters make the best friends in the world. As for lovers, well, they'll come and go too. And baby, I hate to say it, most of them - actually pretty much all of them are going to break your heart, but you can't give up becauase if you give up, you'll never find your soul mate. You'll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once, doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will, sweetie? So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about.” ― Marilyn Monroe
“What we believe is heavily influenced by what we think others believe” .. Thomas Gilovich, How We Know What Isn't So: The Fallibility of Human Reason in Everyday Life
100 % totally agreed..hurmm..
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